"Dun live ur life on someone else" - Fail.

Probably, u might have experienced living ur life on someone else. Wat i mean is, all u think is for the others around u..out of love of course. But have u ever think of the purpose of u doing it? Whether it's for their own good, etc. Well, i did. I love to help around. Hate to say tat sometimes im being used, which is normal for every kind person.

At first, i would like to give up on it. I mean, think bout it. Have they ever help u back?? Do u get any benefit? How did they treat u in return? These questions.. will fail u. haha. I'll tell u why. When u help, do u help wif love or wif a hope of getting a return? Frankly, most of us help bcoz we're hoping for a payback. I think tat's entirely dumb(pardon my language). Whether u knew it or not, the person whom u've help throughout ur years or days on earth have in any way, enlighten them. ALWAYS REMEMBER: "No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of another." - Charles Dickens.

Tis is why i think tat helping one another is vital in tis world. When u fail to help, u'll automatically be categorize as "selfish", unless u're UNABLE to do tat. Well, UNABLE means a lot of things. Check for urself: "Are you disabled?";"Do u have insufficient food to eat?";"Do u have any shelter?";"Are u too poor to give out even few cents?";"Are u not capable?". I hope these helps you in deciding.

Someday, when u're sick n gonna leave the earth n meet the LORD, u might reflect on who u've help, have u been using ur love n sincerity to reach out for others n so on. Those who din help will regret when their days are numbered. Live ur life as meaningful as u can, for u'll never know ppl might help u back in future. thank you.